panicatthethirdrail:

hasta-lala-uego:

chokkilissa-nahollos:

i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions. all people need rest in general! it’s okay!! it doesn’t mean they don’t love me!! it’s not a judgement or punishment!! they deserve to take their rest, and they deserve for me to treat their needs with respect!

not a lot of ppl grasp this.

This is so important! Sometimes it’s hard to realize that it just isn’t about you. Just because someone doesn’t give you the normal amount of attention as usual doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Maybe they just need to take care of themselves. Self care should be encouraged! ❤️❤️

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